Dear Kids,

I love you.

But you better put your stuff away, brush your teeth, make your bed, and do your homework without complaining.

Girls, if a boy doesn't ask you to a dance, don't freak out. It's just high school. Real dating comes afterwards. Work hard, but don't turn down fun opportunities and overwhelm yourself. Be nice. Include everyone. Laugh at everything. Read your scriptures and say your prayers. Listen to your dad. Get a job and start saving for college.

Boys, you better ask to every dance. I'll help with expenses if you need. Work hard and do your homework right when you get home. Don't sell yourself short. Try out for anything you enjoy or want to try. Dress nicely. Study your scriptures and say your prayers. Protect your younger siblings. Get a job and save for college.

Love,

Mom